honestly yeah, it's why i have no social media other than here &… i guess discord is sort of a social media; it's so stressful to do anything when you can't see how people are genuinely reacting, to me; when i talk to people for the first time they tend to get me all overly polite & weird!
Sending those messages is so nerve wracking, literally takes me hours to figure out what to say and gain to courage to send it. I get like a diluted version of the same feeling when posting anything online too for some reason. Its not as bad on sudomemo but I think that's just cause there's hardly anyone here anymore ;-;
EXACTLY everyone is just like "haha cool nice to see you again what're you up to" OR (these guys are the best) they won't even acknowledge that ANY time has passed whatsoever… but you better believe i still feel a little bad for both & sending them a response or random out-of-the-blue message made my stomach flip!
LITERALLY THOUGH omg I spent MONTHS (on several different occasions) driving myself crazing thinking someone I accidentally ghosted hated me but when I finally responded to them they're pretty much always chill asf. I never learn though and drive myself crazy the next time it happens regardless.
man, you get it… aside from my group preference. i like groups so much because you can sit back & ignore the chat until it's something you actually care about/have knowledge in without having to tell people that you're uninterested in their current whatever or you have no idea what to do when their dog eats two raisins, y'know? but, anyway, most of the people that i don't speak to regularly are whatever about a once in a blue moon response or message, it's usually just You who cares which is SO SILLY! but if you've talked to anyone who actually cares about the time it takes to be responded to THEY'RE EVEN SILLIER! it's like a letter! GRAAAAAA
I always end up getting stressed out and putting off responding until its way too late and it ends up snowballing like crazy. Also I'm surprised you find talking in groups easier, usually its the opposite
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to anyone who lurks in here: my discord is "kyippi", i am pretty picky about topics, but i will let you know if i'm not interested in something
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honestly yeah, it's why i have no social media other than here &… i guess discord is sort of a social media; it's so stressful to do anything when you can't see how people are genuinely reacting, to me; when i talk to people for the first time they tend to get me all overly polite & weird!
Sending those messages is so nerve wracking, literally takes me hours to figure out what to say and gain to courage to send it. I get like a diluted version of the same feeling when posting anything online too for some reason. Its not as bad on sudomemo but I think that's just cause there's hardly anyone here anymore ;-;
EXACTLY everyone is just like "haha cool nice to see you again what're you up to" OR (these guys are the best) they won't even acknowledge that ANY time has passed whatsoever… but you better believe i still feel a little bad for both & sending them a response or random out-of-the-blue message made my stomach flip!
LITERALLY THOUGH omg I spent MONTHS (on several different occasions) driving myself crazing thinking someone I accidentally ghosted hated me but when I finally responded to them they're pretty much always chill asf. I never learn though and drive myself crazy the next time it happens regardless.
man, you get it… aside from my group preference. i like groups so much because you can sit back & ignore the chat until it's something you actually care about/have knowledge in without having to tell people that you're uninterested in their current whatever or you have no idea what to do when their dog eats two raisins, y'know? but, anyway, most of the people that i don't speak to regularly are whatever about a once in a blue moon response or message, it's usually just You who cares which is SO SILLY! but if you've talked to anyone who actually cares about the time it takes to be responded to THEY'RE EVEN SILLIER! it's like a letter! GRAAAAAA
I always end up getting stressed out and putting off responding until its way too late and it ends up snowballing like crazy. Also I'm surprised you find talking in groups easier, usually its the opposite
everyone gathers around kip & goes "but you're so cool!" and the sudomemo algorithm goes "well, you heard them!" & shares kip with the world